It's so easy to get caught up in the pity party of life. Blaming others for your pain and sorrow and dwelling on the negative. At some point, however, most of us have had enough.
I was tired of being negative and focusing on my pain. I wanted to recover my happiness and happy outlook on life. I decided to go to an astrologer recommended by a trusted friend who assured me that she had gone to many astrologers over the years and this one was the best astrologer for me.
My astrology reading revealed that my gifts were many and I wanted to share them with others. I didn't want to mope around any longer. I started by letting go.
My astrologer explained the planetary influences I was under and that the transits of Uranus, Saturn and Pluto meant it was time for big changes. I wanted to move forward with my life and letting go was vital to this step. I had to let go of my past, of my expectations, and of my pain. Wow so much packed into a circle of symbols in my astrology world chart.
I had to forgive those who had harmed me in my past and stop dwelling on the hatred that was beginning to consume me.
Once this was done (and it took me a few weeks to let go of it and not return to it), I was ready to move forward. I began by focusing on one good thing every day.
It didn't have to be huge. Just one simple thing that was good about my day was sufficient. Each day I focused on one good thing, and the next day, I added in another thing that was good.
By the end of the first week, I had a long list of things to be grateful and thankful for. These good things helped me to refocus and dwell on the positive.
Now I was ready to move forward. I could now walk into a room and smile and mean it. I wasn't consumed by my past. I wasn't consumed by pain and sorrow of what should have been.
I was now me. Just me. As I returned to me, I was able to exude positive attitude wherever I went.
The more I smiled and meant it, the more loving I became and the more people responded in kind. I soon found that the more positive and loving I was, the more positive and loving others were to me.
This was working very well. By now, I was happy and focused on making others happy. No more hanging my head and feeling down on myself. No more anger at traffic or others who were just as frustrated as I was. Letting go of the past, of the pain and sorrow made me a more loving person. I am so grateful I listened to my intuition and was able to listen to what the astrologer had to say. It encouraged me to do what was in my heart.